Well, I have been feeling a bit frustrated, at times. Especially when things "irk" me. There are a few things I can't stand but I put up with it anyway. So I just wanted to express it the best way i know how, writing about it. Here Goes Nothing.
1)Nagging!
-I admit, I nag but not alot. Maybe about the dishes, but I only say "Can someone please wash the dishes" or "Please wash your dishes when you are done eating." Minor things like that. But I have been nagged on constantly that I just can't stand it. I mean, what makes someone feel so happy about nagging, nagging, and nagging? I just dont get it. I get so irritated that I just want to burst out yelling, but I just keep silent and complain in my head. I try so hard not to start arguments. Yes, at times I would say something to that person or persons, but still they continue to NAG! Its the kind of nagging when they want to have the last word. Doesn't that "irk" you? Well, it annoys me BIG time! I just wish they could sit in front of a mirror and nag the way they do, and I am so sure they would annoy themselves.
2)Always wanting to be right!
-We have all done this. But when we figure we are wrong, most of us live up to it, but some people will NOT stop even if they are wrong. I go through this alot. I know this person who always wants to be right. She/He has argued with me & my other half constantly. Saying she/he knows this and that. Saying, Yes Yes Yes or No No No. What would it take for some people to just be like "I was wrong?"
3)Asking for help(always), but igonoring the help.
-I know sounds weird but trust me, I know what this feels like. I am a big helper. I help those who need my help alot. This one person has asked me for help since the day I met them. I have helped this person more than anyone else has. I probably get a phone call 3 times a week asking for help. Like: "Can I borrow $ for gas?", "Do you have pampers?", "Man, We dont have this, can I have some?", "Can you take me to this place?", "Can I borrow your car?", or "Can you help me with my resume or sending out my resume?" Yup! All of this! But recetly I have quit. Helping so many times lets them feel that they don't have to do anything! I sent out the resumes, they landed and interviews, but did not go to the interviews nor did they call the place to let them know they can't make it. I only helped because I care & would like to help them acheive a better life. But I guess my help is not worth it. I am not trying to be mean, but I can't help those who don't want to help themselves.
Well, this is just to name a few!
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